Is the word boring really exists in a relationship? Have you ever experienced it? How did you deal with it? This post will tackle about why some relationships are experiencing boredom and tips on how you can deal and pass through it.
We can feel different emotions and that’s why we’re able to express different feelings too. One of them is the feeling of being bored. Let’s say, for example, when you do an activity for a very long time, and it’s already repeating, what can you feel? Boredom, will come out in a relationship if you aren’t doing something that fulfills both of you. It becomes stagnant, the relationship is already unproductive and could be the start of undesirable breakup stories. Never come into a point that you’ll never do something about it! If you love that person, fight for him/her, and please never be defeated by boredom in your relationship. Save your relationship while you can. Slowing down in your relationship is normal, don’t expect it to be the same just as when you were starting your love story or during the first year of being together. It’s not always like that, and it’s not like a fairy tale love story. You’re dealing with a real life-love story that you really need to work on, in order for it to be successful.
Here are tips that you may consider in dealing with boredom in your relationship:
- It is important to spend time together and identify one thing that makes you happy and attached.
- What is that hobby or activity that when you do will enhance your relationship more?
- Come up with a shared to-do-list.
- Make something new in a weekly basis.
- Open up your feelings, so that he/she would be aware of what’s inside you.
- Appreciate your partner, connect with him/her always.
- Go for a date, and enjoy each other’s company.
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